The Dreaded Call
What am I meant to do? Pretend this man doesn’t exist? Act like the past was just a weird fever dream? How do I move on when my heart is still parked outside his emotional disaster zone, refusing to tow itself away?
Hey There
Dating blogs are everywhere, but this one comes from a place of deep, personal experience and raw honesty. My journey is not your typical dating story.
What makes this blog unique isn’t just the intensity of what I’ve been through, but the perspective it’s given me. I’m not here to sugarcoat dating or offer generic tips—I’m here to share real, hard-earned wisdom about love, betrayal, healing, and finding your worth again. If you’re tired of superficial dating advice and ready for something raw, relatable, and unfiltered, you’re in the right place.
Mr Manchester
Love these days feels like chasing a mirage: tempting, elusive, and often disappointing. The dating apps are loaded, my thumbs are primed, and yet… where is my needle in this digital haystack?
Tinder or Hinge? - The modern way to date
As I embark on my new journey of finding love again, I reflect on the many deep conversations I’ve had with my friends over the past nine months since my breakup. It may seem soon to jump back into the dating scene, but I believe in embracing opportunities as they come. So, where did I start? You guessed it: online dating.
The Ice Queen: My Unlikely Anchor
In the midst of my tumultuous 12-year relationship, I never expected to find a true gem—one of my best friends, affectionately known as the Ice Queen. At first glance, she may seem like a formidable force with her cool demeanour and sharp wit, but underneath that icy exterior lies a heart of gold. She has been the best thing to come out of my past relationship, a shining light in the darkness that often surrounded me. Her strength and resilience have inspired me, reminding me that it’s okay to embrace both the tough and tender sides of life.
Life After Him
Life after him has been a journey of rediscovery and resilience, one that I didn't have to navigate alone. When the dust settled on our tumultuous relationship, I found myself grappling with a whirlwind of emotions—anger, sadness, and an overwhelming sense of loss. The promises of marriage and family had evaporated, leaving me to sift through the rubble of my dreams. But amidst the heartache, I realized this was an opportunity to reconnect with myself and redefine what happiness truly meant for me. My amazing friends, my girls, stood by my side, offering their unwavering support and reminding me I was never alone in this journey.
Me.
Dear Reader, this is a diary of a self-proclaimed lover girl who’s definitely been through the wringer when it comes to men! Ever since I can remember, I’ve been in love with the idea of love—romantic, sweeping, all-encompassing. But real life? Well, let’s just say it hasn’t quite lived up to the fairy tale. My journey has been full of twists and heartbreaks that have challenged everything I thought I knew about relationships.
About us
Lover Girl Chronicles is your online refuge for real, raw, and unfiltered conversations about love, heartbreak, and healing. Here, we know that every heart has its own story—mine just happens to be one of betrayal, loss, and ultimately, resilience. This blog is a collection of deeply personal experiences, hard-earned lessons, and honest reflections, designed to give you a fresh perspective on love, especially when it doesn’t go as planned.
Whether you're seeking understanding, support, or just a relatable read, you’ll find it here. I share my own journey—12 years in a relationship shattered by lies and infidelity, and being left behind at my most vulnerable. But I’ve come out stronger, and now I’m here to offer advice rooted in lived experience, not theory.
This space is all about authenticity, vulnerability, and finding connection through shared stories. We are for anyone who’s ready to heal, rediscover themselves, and maybe even fall in love again—starting with self-love. So join me as we navigate the messy, beautiful, and sometimes heart-breaking world of relationships, one chapter at a time.